Author: Dylan Moore

Breaking free from emotional insecurity isn’t about becoming someone new—it’s about letting go of the false beliefs that have held you back. It’s about stepping into your confidence, your voice, your self-trust. And yes, that takes time, but every step forward is a step toward freedom

Trauma has a way of making you feel small. Like your power was stolen, your voice muted, your worth diminished. It can make you question everything—your strength, your choices, even your ability to move forward. But here’s the truth: You are not your trauma. You are not what happened to you.

Somewhere inside you, there’s a version of yourself that still believes in magic. The child who once danced without fear, dreamed without limits, and loved without hesitation. That version of you didn’t worry about being “too much” or “not enough.” They just were.

Real self-love isn’t a destination; it’s a skill. And like any skill, it takes practice. It requires us to unlearn the narratives that told us we were “too much” or “not enough.” It asks us to build resilience, to hold space for our emotions without drowning in them, and to choose ourselves—even when it’s hard.

There’s a type of connection that masquerades as love but is built on something far more dangerous—trauma. It pulls you in, convinces you that the highs are worth the lows, and leaves you questioning why breaking free feels impossible. Trauma bonds don’t form because you’re weak. They form because your nervous system has learned to mistake survival for love. And that’s not your fault.