You’re 100% VALID Even If Others Don’t GET It
Dylan Moore, Founder Balanced Analysis LLC and Breaking Barriers University
You share your dream. Your idea. Your truth. And in return? Blank stares. Awkward silence. That squinty “Are you serious?” look.
Suddenly you wonder:
“Maybe I’m being unrealistic…”
“Maybe I should tone it down…”
“Maybe I’m just too much…”
Let’s pause right there. That’s not self-awareness—it’s self-abandonment dressed up as humility.
Because here’s the truth: Your validity is not a group project. You do not need consensus to own your confidence.
If you’re done shrinking to fit inside someone else’s comfort zone, this one’s for you.
The Time I Realized I Wasn’t Confusing—They Were Just Limited
Years ago, I shared an idea I was deeply passionate about—something that lit up my entire soul. And someone close to me looked at me and said, “Yeah… but who’s going to care about that?”
That one sentence had me spiraling. I almost scrapped the whole thing. But deep down, I knew: It wasn’t that I was wrong. They just weren’t my audience.
They couldn’t see it because it wasn’t theirs to carry. And it took me a while—but I stopped trying to prove my vision to people who lacked the capacity to see beyond their own fears.
And now? I don’t ask, “Will they get it?” I ask, “Does it feel true to me?” That shift? It changed everything.
When You Keep Waiting for Approval That Never Comes
If you’ve ever watered yourself down to be more palatable—just know, you’re not alone. We’ve been conditioned to believe:
✔ That worth is granted by applause.
✔ That validation equals value.
✔ That being accepted is safer than being authentic.
✔ That confidence must be backed by consensus.
But here’s the truth: You were taught to earn what was already yours.
You’ve spent years trying to be digestible. What if it’s time to be whole instead?
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How To Build Unbreakable Self-Trust
It’s time to stop outsourcing your worth to people who don’t have the range. Here’s how to build self-validation that doesn’t shake under someone else’s squint.
1. Know Your Truth—and Stand in It Without Apology
Confidence begins the moment you stop shrinking in anticipation of rejection.
2. Surround Yourself With Mirrors, Not Judges
Find the people who reflect your light—not distort it. You’re not asking for praise. You’re claiming resonance.
3. Detach Your Worth From Their Reaction
Not everyone claps for greatness when it’s still in the incubation phase. Let that be their limitation—not your undoing.
4. Affirm Yourself—In Your Own Language
Forget the Instagram-perfect affirmations. Say what lands deep in your bones. Say it like it’s already true.
5. Redefine Belonging as Alignment, Not Approval
You don’t belong where you’re tolerated. You belong where your brilliance is welcomed.
You’re Not Too Much—They’re Just Not Enough for Your Magic
Let me make it lovingly clear: If someone doesn’t “get” you, that’s not your cue to dial it down. That’s your invitation to rise anyway.
You are not confusing. You are complex. You are not too much. You are more than they’re used to.
So what happens when you stop explaining your soul in a language built for small talk? You stop translating. You stop shrinking. You start speaking fluently in your own brilliance—and watch the right people listen with reverence.
Let’s rise fierce into a life where you are valid—not because they get it, but because you do.
Together we rise. Together we thrive. Let’s rise fierce into our new life of personal power and freedom.
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Hi, I’m Dylan Moore — and I’m here to help you move past the pain and the trauma that have stood in the way of your healing.
For over 30 years, I’ve guided women through emotional recovery and personal transformation. As an Author and Cognitive Behavioral Specialist, my mission is to empower you with the tools and support you need to break free from the past.
I founded Balanced Analysis LLC and Breaking Barriers University to make healing practical, approachable, and real. I take complex psychological concepts and turn them into clear, actionable steps—always with compassion and care.
Now, it’s your turn to release the hurt and step into the greatest version of who you were always meant to be. And I’ll be right here to walk that path with you.
